A whole lot of races don’t allow strollers because they can
get in the way of this and that. They can create safety hazard for runners and
of course they are worried about the child themselves. I’ve been trying to
decide what to do for the Odessa Marathon and finally an old idea occurred to
me. After Kiana’s mother left, I had actually asked the Boston Marathon if I
could run it with a stroller and they said no that was against regulations.
Either way, it was probably too long to ask Kiana to sit in a stroller since
it would probably be 3:30-4:00 hours. We’ve done up to six miles in the
stroller but it’s getting harder as she gets heavier. I looked at previous
times for the Odessa Marathon and the honest truth is that I think I’d have a
decent shot of winning either the half or the full outright if I went out there
but I’ve won a half so there’s nothing to be gained there and I’m not quite
sure that if I ran the full that I’d be there when my mom finished her half. So
I emailed the race director and asked if I could run it with a stroller that
way I wasn’t sitting around the entire time my mom is walking it (this is where
you can reprimand me for not walking it with her but trust me… if you haven’t
been training walking as she is, walking that long can hurt). They ran it by
their board and Kiana and I are the first to get permission to run with a
stroller in the history of this marathon. It won’t be a PR but I’m going to leave
as much as I can out there. I have a cheap stroller but I am hoping I can
borrow a nice one for that weekend because well, we may have taken second in
the stroller division last year’s Thanksgiving run but she’s put on a bit of
weight since then (4 years old to 5 years old). I’ve also offered money to get
her a finisher’s medal that way all 3 generations get one and no one will be
cheering louder for anyone out there than my daughter and I will be for “abuela’s”
first half marathon finish.
I want to never complain but I do miss having my brain how
it used to be a long time ago. I went on a bat cruise with wonders and worries
yesterday but got there too early so I took Kiana on a quick canoe trip. We
both had fun and she kept pointing out that I wasn’t wearing a life jacket even
though she was. She was paddling and splashing me and I was trying to just keep
things going in the right direction. Somehow I hope those last two sentences is
the rhythm of our life. Still, at the event, I sat next to a lady who was
saying how her husband had been there for the event last year with her two
young kids and how this year he was in a hospice and how by this time next year
he’d be gone. Kiana listened and perhaps showing the ignorance or innocence of
childhood said, “I’m sorry… but my dad’s going to be here.” I wanted to
apologize for the second half but the woman hugged her and there was nothing I
could think to say, other than to whisper to Kiana to be careful what she said
to people after.
It’s going to be time to make some financial decisions soon
and that’s called life. And riding rides for Livestrong and running tournaments
that raised money for charities and winning trophies has been a way that kept
me going but at the end of the day… and they inspired others and having those
concrete goals kept me going, well they don’t pay the bills. So soon and very
soon unless something spectacular comes up, it’s time to just put things in
their right priorities and make sure my daughter has food on her table and a
roof over her head. I dared to dream enough about this to where I bought a
lottery ticket on the way to the Doctor’s office but even I don’t have that
good of luck.
I’ll canoe with my daughter and push her for a half marathon
in a stroller. I’ll cheer for my mom as she does hers. And it will be time soon
to make some financial decisions but in the end, some things in life, well it
ain’t no thing but a family thing.
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